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✨Shaunté Ledger's avatar

You had me at “fuck it” list. Saving this post for my morning coffee.

Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

Hahahaha hope you have that much fun reading is as I had writing it.

Judy Murdoch's avatar

I recently created a "Harsh Judgement" list with all the really unkind, harsh stuff I criticize myself on. My interactions with people trigger some really hard comments "why are you such a spazz?" "why can't you just not say anything like other people?"

Just creating the list helped. Makes me more aware of how harsh I am with myself.

Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

Damn! So true isn't it? It's almost become a protection mechanism for ourselves. Like before others can say anything, we tell it to ourselves.

So happy for you Judy!

Savira V Gupta's avatar

Definitely a post am saving... needed this

Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

Thanks a lot Savira!!

Sam Messersmith's avatar

I needed this. Thank you!

Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

Your voice note yesterday made my whole week Sam! Thank you for everything!

Sam Messersmith's avatar

I love that, you're so welcome!

Shaneh Woods's avatar

Renaming my "What I am no longer available for" list to a Fuck it list - it better matches the energy in which I have released all that I'm no longer available for. Thank you for the inspo!

Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

It automatically gives us a boost doesn't it? I saw someone on Instagram create it and got super inspired!

Vivienne Helen's avatar

This is inspiring Shruthi and divinely timed as ever. Bless you and thank you😇🥰

Shruthi Vidhya Sundaram's avatar

Thanks a shit ton Vivienne! Genuinely woman...your energy is awesome!

Vivienne Helen's avatar

Bless you Shruthi. I mirror your own awesome energy💥💫💥💫

Cooᴘᴇʀ F. Gᴀᴛᴇs's avatar

Haha. Also known as "These are all the ways in which I am NOT a people pleaser. These things might make the first person involved happy immediately, but the costs offset the benefits of that."